Exclude the Matrix gateway shim from freebsd/arm builds because
modernc.org/libc currently fails to compile on that target.
Document the upstream 32-bit FreeBSD codegen mismatch as well.
* feat(gateway): support hot reload and empty startup
- extract gateway runtime into pkg/gateway
- add gateway.hot_reload config with default and example values
- allow starting the gateway without a default model via --allow-empty
- stop treating missing enabled channels as a startup error
- update related tests
* feat: replace gateway SSE updates with polling-based state sync
- remove gateway SSE broadcasting and event endpoint
- add polling-based gateway status refresh with stopping state handling
- detect when gateway restart is required after default model changes
- resolve gateway health and websocket proxy targets from configured host
- update gateway UI labels and add backend/frontend test coverage
Cytown