build: use WEB_GO for web targets and preserve backend dist directory (#1671)

Separate web Go commands from the default Go toolchain so web builds,
tests, and vet can enable CGO on Darwin without affecting the rest of
the project. Also ensure frontend backend builds recreate backend/dist
with a .gitkeep file so the embedded output directory remains tracked.

web/frontend/package.json

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@
   "scripts": {
     "dev": "vite",
     "build": "tsc -b && vite build",
-    "build:backend": "tsc -b && vite build --outDir ../backend/dist --emptyOutDir",
+    "build:backend": "tsc -b && vite build --outDir ../backend/dist --emptyOutDir && node ./scripts/ensure-backend-gitkeep.cjs",
     "lint": "eslint .",
     "preview": "vite preview",
     "format": "prettier --check .",